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The Dangers of Social Media on Self-Worth

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    When it comes to college, I tell my girls that you When it comes to college, I tell my girls that you want to be where God wants you to be. 

I remind them that I’ve been to college, and I got to make my choices, and now it’s their turn to make their choices, which may be different than mine, beginning with what school they choose.

I tell them to pay attention to how a campus makes you feel and what feels most like “home.” You can get a great education in many places, yet it’s the intangibles and gut instincts that ultimately help you make the right call.

In all my years of reading articles on college selection, I’ve never seen any mention of prayer, discernment, consulting God, or trusting your gut. But the way I see it, only He knows the future. Only He knows the people we should meet and the experiences we should have that play into His long-term plan. I met many of my best friends in college as well as my husband, who grew up next door to my pledge sister. Even my instinct to choose that sorority had a major impact on my life trajectory.

When my first book released, many moms who led small group studies or planned speaking events were people I knew from college. They weren’t my best friends, but rather, friendly acquaintances. I had no idea at age 18, as I made random connections, that God would later weave them back into my life in more significant ways. I share this with my daughters too to remind them that the biggest blessings they’ll carry away from college are the relationships that they cultivate.

I know outstanding kids who attend high-brow universities, and I cheer so hard for them. At the same time, every campus has success stories. Every campus has students who thrive and become amazing alums. More important than choosing the most prestigious college you get into is choosing a college that brings you peace. If we want our kids to be happy, it’s wise to help them find the place that gets them excited, feels like home, and sets the stage for their future.

As our kids make decisions about their life and their calling, let’s remind them to consult their intuition. Sometimes God has a quiet way of revealing where to go.

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    Happy Thanksgiving, friends!!! 🦃 I’m a happy mama Happy Thanksgiving, friends!!! 🦃 I’m a happy mama having all babies home and enjoying a full house, a full driveway, and a full heart🤎 So grateful for all of you and your impact in my life. Wishing you and your family many blessings today and in the holiday season to come!!
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